“Wisdom from Above”
James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a
In doing my research for this sermon, I ran across a book entitled; How to Argue and Win Every time. I
don’t recommend it. But obviously a lot of people have read this book
because it has been on the national bestseller list several times.
According to the author Gerry Spence, we were born to win arguments. The
problem, says Spence, is that we have been locked up by our parents,
our preachers, and our teachers. We have been taught like puppies,
“Don’t bark!” Arguing sets us free, he said. Life is an argument
that you either win or lose. You can win by buying his book and learning
how. Here is a whopper of a quote that comes from page 15: “When we
give ourselves permission to argue, we become like born again
gladiators.” I suppose that for some people the idea of becoming
a born again gladiator is an appealing image, but when I read excerpts
from this book I came away shaking my head. This is what the book of
James calls the wisdom of the world. In our passage of scripture, James
is urging us to seek a higher wisdom, the wisdom that comes from above,
and that is what we are going to talk about for a little while this
morning. Let me give you the background. The book of James is a call for
the Christian Church to live out the law of love. Jesus said that we
are to love God with all our hearts and minds and strength and soul –
and to love our neighbors as ourselves. In the first chapter James says,
“Be doers of the word and not hearers only.” In the second chapter
James says “If we love our neighbor as ourselves, we are doing what is
right.” In the 3rd chapter James talks about taming our tongues. In our
passage of scripture this morning, James is talking about arguments in
the church and how we should speak and act with wisdom – God’s wisdom –
when we deal with one another.
Next
time you find yourself wanting to argue or fight, ask yourself why is
this important. Is it because I want to win, or because I want this or I
want that? All of this is what James calls being double minded. We have
all these mixed motives that make us want to fight. But wisdom from
above is pure or single minded. Saint Paul said to the Philippians (2:3)
“Be of the same mind as Christ.” Paul said to the Romans, (12:2) “Do
not be conformed to the ways of the world but be transformed by the
renewal of your minds.”
James
tells us that wisdom from above is sincere, and humble. My favorite
Abraham Lincoln quote comes from one of his early political debates.
During the debate his opponent accused him of being two-faced. Mr.
Lincoln says one thing but he will do another – he is two faced. This is
the oldest political trick in the book. If you accuse your opponent of
being two-faced, then no matter what they say people will think that
they are being two faced. How do you respond to that? Worldly wisdom
says attack back. Accuse your opponent of something worse. The best
defense is a good offense. Attack, keep on attacking, and win. We all
know how negative campaigning works. But that is not what Abraham
Lincoln did. Rather, after his opponent had called him
twofaced, Abraham Lincoln said: “If I had two faces do you think I would
be wearing this one?”
This
week I want to ask you to continue to pray that God will give you
wisdom in dealing with others. James said, “Draw near to God and He will
draw near to us. That is how we get wisdom from above.
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